Love and giving goes hand in hand, people in love exchange gifts. but mostly we are so engulfed with many things in that we become goal keepers and more less scorers, you will find a young and energetic lady/man solely depends on the partner as provider of their daily needs and henceforth these relationships turnout to be hectic and a burden some.
statics has it that the reason why most marriages are broken is because one side is on more of goal keeping and the other on the opposite which isn't fair at all and we need to change for better.
To the youth
look at how marvelous love is, how special you feel when you are truly safely feeling to be in true love, oh yeah imagine how it feels to sleep comfortably like a baby as if forever it will be but would you like it if I was to term it as "vain"?
would you like it if I was to tell you that you have not yet found true love?
Well all this isn't love not even near to love. yes you have read so many things that proves that true love isn't a feeling but a principle, hey wait! what do we mean here?
Love is not that feeling we have at first sight, or that emotional that we have when we are hugged or kissed nay and far from it but that principle that drives one to look for a pure and noble character that will make Jesus, others and themselves happy entirely.
it's possible to give someone whom I don't love or care about but it's very impractical to love without giving.
actualy there's a certain secret society which pretend to be christian and they give out to the poor but it's the same which is in for front to instill fear, kill and cause many confusion in the world today.
yet we have another group that claim to know God to have been leading them but yet so careless when it becomes to giving. this class of people seam to know the truth but they act opposite to what they proclaim.
Friends a story is told of a certain woman who wished to be liberated from this toxic relationship but no one was there for help. but one morning she received a call that someone wanted to see her, this man come over to propose love to this poor woman though hesitated for some months she at last accepted.
Now the challenge remained the same she because was staying at her ex-boyfriend's house which was really a mess. a man decided to give all he had to rescue the woman because he loved her very much.
look how mavelous it is to give, where else do we find this principle in love?
well let's look at the scripture from the Bible in John 3:16, "For God so Loved the world that He gave Hisonly begottenson..." you all know the scripture well.
it was in God's intension to give the only golden treasure in heaven because He loved us... no wonder Jesus was ready to die for human kind even to the point of death and if it meant him to die forever and never rose again he was ready.
What manner of love is this that the father hath bestowed us that we should be called sons and daughters of God.
we are part of nature's law and we need to obey as it is. image how rivers, trees and other plants are loyal to this principle, it mavelous.
Look at how fountains give water to the streams and streams to the rivers so that they feed the lakes and seas to satisfy the oceans, isn't wonderful and mavelous? Yes! it is... look at how beautiful the trees and the living things the mavelous sharing of oxygen and carbon dioxide, during day time the living beings produces carbon dioxide which is use to the trees and plants during the day and takes in oxygen which is emitted by the trees and plants.
see the principle and link here, if the trees says I won't produce oxygen then a human being will die which will to human beings fail to produce carbon dioxide which leads to the plant also to die. we are in a chain of interdependence and we can't live without giving... it is part of us.
Give to his glory and not to be seen by men but to be recognized by heavens. Give not because everyone is doing it but because it is right to do it.
Merci pour la lecture!